I've always liked Spiderman. I watched its third installment this afternoon with Mami Chay and Darron. I was caught in the Spiderman craze and found myself loving the movie. It's not just because James Franco (a.k.a. Harry Osborn) was uberly hot, but also because of the lesson I got from the movie. Even if it was an action movie, it still taught me a thing or two.

When Peter Parker was so angry at his' Uncle Ben's killer, auntie May calmed him down saying: "He doesn't want us to live with revenge in our hearts. Like a poison, it can take us over." - The most cliched line, where I always hear it on everyone's mouth.

But it's not that easy to forgive and forget is it? Even if it's a fictional story, it has a message that we ought to realize. I am going to a lot of problems as of this moment, and I want to get back to the people who have caused all my pains- until I saw the movie.

For me, the black thing in the movie sort of symbolized the revenge that we want. It can feel good at the beginning, but it will only damage our life. It can take over us, but we never realize it. When we try to get rid of it, it mybe too late.

As Peter Parker said, we all have choices. And we can choose to be right. A proverb not to be forgotten: Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge.